"Thought of the Week" Tired of the Chaos? Stop Feeding it!

 I wonder what would happen if everyone stepped out of the hate cycle - no more name-calling, fearmongering, or endless accusations. No more arguing just to “win” or to push an agenda.

Isn’t anyone tired of the same anger, the same tactics, the same division? This is something we can - and should - refuse to participate in. We can make our point without tearing others down. Too many people seem stuck in an “my way or the highway” mindset, where conversation stops, and all that remains is hate. No one willing to budge, no one willing to admit they might be wrong.

That rigidity is the key ingredient to division. You can’t claim to be against something while still participating in it. And honestly, sometimes it feels like nothing will ever change.

So what is the idea behind the “Thought of the Week?”

With so much going on in the world, I have my own thoughts and concerns. That’s why, from time to time, I'll share my “Thought of the Week” - a way to open discussion and see what others are thinking. Who knows, I could be wrong; after all, it’s a thought, not a rigid opinion. I always enjoy hearing different perspectives.

I don’t get angry, and I don’t want to argue, because arguing rarely accomplishes anything. Understanding what people are thinking helps us see where they’re coming from. Even if we believe differently, we don’t need to unfollow or hate each other. Let’s return to peacefully expressing our opinions without tearing each other down. If someone resorts to negativity, be the bigger person. Throwing rocks back and forth isn’t productive.

The strategy for dealing with conflict is up to each of us, but we must all start setting a better example, especially as adults for younger generations. They need guidance, and the example some are setting right now won’t lead to a good outcome. If you don’t see it already, things are getting worse - something needs to change.

All that said, I hope sharing my observations can help. My thoughts could be wrong - you can tell me - but this is also a test to see how people react. I hope it’s with kindness, not more hate. No unfollowing or unfriending - just understanding and accepting that sometimes we won’t agree, and that doesn’t make us enemies.